This is a question I get a lot, I would venture to say as often as people with tattoo’s hear “How will those look when you’re 80?!” To be honest I have no freaking clue, but I’m guessing it will be a hell of a lot better than carrying around a few extra hundred pounds. I will probably do the same thing I’ve done with all the fat I have been carrying around the last 20+ years and that’s sucking it up and dealing with it.
I have a long way to go to get to where I’m going and it’s just one of those things I will just have to worry about when I get there. I already see some of the signs, the skin on my arms, my thighs, my stomach and chest all starting to get a little more loose. Of course as the fat burns my skin has begun to contract but I know it only has so much elasticity, I have no choice but to embrace my stretch marks.
For years I felt ashamed about my fat, my stomach, my chest, the marks. I gave up going to the beach, one of my favorite places in the world, because I couldn’t stand to be asked about why I wouldn’t take off my shirt or people jokingly trying to check out my rolls or chest. Eventually it was just easier to avoid the situations and the embarrassments altogether, I abandoned the shore, pools, public showers, locker rooms or anywhere I would be expected to take my shirt off.
After shedding 130+ lbs and about 7 pants sizes and 2 shirt sizes I am beginning to feel more comfortable with myself. More accepting, willing to show a side of me that I’ve hidden for so long and to not be afraid of the ridicule or the judgement. It’s not easy, the self doubt creeps in, the insecurities, but it’s getting better. So no, I don’t know what am going to do about all the skin but I know whatever I decide it will be better than where I started. Surgery is an option, if I can afford it, but I will no longer allow my skin, my rolls, or my weight dictate my happiness.